Threesomes, Oral Sex, & Other Sex Questions

Photographed by Lauren Perlstein; Illustrated By Ly Ngo. We love chatting with Stoya -- writer, thinker, on-screen-sex haver -- about all manner of sexual, sensual, and feminist topics. In fact, we had so much fun talking with her, we asked her to write a monthly sex and relationship advice column. Have a burning question? Send any and all queries to [email protected]. "Hi! I'm in my 40s, and my hormones are going BONKERS. I'm not in a relationship at the moment -- and I am looking -- but I f...